"You live in Utah?"
Yes, I live in Salt Lake City, Utah and I relocated here for no other
reason than that I wanted to :-). I love the outdoors and try to
spend as much time as I can outside! I grew up in a home directly in front
of a large wooded area, so as a young girl I used to hike those woods with
friends and alone. That experience paved the way for a tremendous love and
appreciation for nature and being outside as I grew older. Many places in
the Mid-west doesn't accommodate that love, so my boys and I moved to Salt
Lake City, Utah. I can honestly say that I live within minutes of some of
the most fantastic natural wonders found on earth. My boys and I participate
in most outdoor recreational sports and we love the lifestyle living in the
Rocky Mountain provide. I do, however, miss the water. I am a Pisces, so I
need water. Some of my favorite hikes are to places where the destination is
a mountain lake, hot springs, or simply follows a stream flowing down the
mountain side.
When I am not hiking or camping, I
dance and I LOVE to dance. I take an African dance class (yes, they have
that in Salt Lake City. Imagine that!). We learn traditional dances from
Mali, Congo, and other African countries and it has introduced me to a dance
community that has changed and saved my life. On Sundays I try to make it to
the drum circle at a local park to stomp the earth and dance with an
eclectic mix of amateur and seasoned drummers and musicians. Unfortunately I
do not do much club dancing anymore. Despite the exercise and the
exhilaration I get from dancing, as I get older, my body grows less tolerant
of secondhand smoke. I've been known to be a poetry groupie. I do not and
will not ever declare myself a poet, however, I am a sucker for well written poetry.
I have volunteered my time at a local youth detention center, where I get
young men and women under 18, writing. This has truly been a profound
experience for me.
Like most, writing is not all I do.
As my son would say, "I work with computers," to earn a living that feeds my
kids and keeps a roof over our heads. Some times barely ;-).
Ultimately, when I am not writing, I am not Darlene,
as I have found out the most difficult of ways (by not writing). Finally
finishing this third novel that took me TOO long to finish, I am free to
begin the next chapter of the story I began with
Piano In The Dark, as well as pen other stories waiting on the
crest of my brain to be told.
I pray for and is grateful for
your continued support as I grow, first as a woman, a mother, and as a
writer.
Alima!
Darlene
"ALIMA-
It is a sufi name for God. It means: one who knows. Only
God knows and unless we become one with God there is no knowing. All else
that we think is knowledge, is just trivia, rubbish -- at the most
information, but not knowledge. And the difference is great: to know means
to know from the inside; information means to collect something from the
outside.
If you ask a scientist about a flower, whatsoever he is going to say is
information. Ask the lover or the poet or the painter. What he is going to
say about the flower will be closer to knowing, will be something from
inside.
They say in Japan that if you want to paint a bamboo, first you will have
to become a bamboo. Otherwise how can you paint it? -- you will not know
the inside story. And that's the difference between painting and
photography. Photography is information, because the camera cannot go
within. It remains an outsider, it is a spectator, it does not
participate. A painting means that the painter entered into it,
participated in its being, fell en rapport with it. There were moments
when he was not, only the bamboo was there. He felt the bamboo in the
morning sun, as the bamboo feels it. He felt the bamboo when the cuckoo
comes and starts crying around it. He felt the bamboo on the full-moon
night when a subtle breeze passes by and whispers something in the ear of
the bamboo.
Sufis say that only God knows because God is the inside of all. God is not
a person but just the inside of everything -- inside me, inside you,
inside the rock inside the flower... inside the whole existence.
Science studies existence from the outside, hence it remains information.
Religion goes into it. Religion is not a detached observation, no; it is
falling in love. That is the meaning of 'Alima': to know things from the
inside."
note: I learned the word, Alima, from a very
beautiful and talented Congolese dance instructor, Mabiba Baegne . I found
this eloquent definition from the website for baby names: http://www.algroup.co.uk/wpb/sannyas.htm